I declare that I’m NOT sheltered. I DON’T live in my disney fantasy. I’m NOT a kid and I’m certainly NOT CUTE.
Among my friends, I’m usually the one with the most freedom around. My parents doesn’t give me monthly allowance, I have access to how much I want to spend. I don’t have a curfew and they don’t care if I don’t get distinctions in school. This is the kind of trust I get from my parents and I don’t think I failed them…
Primary school: I look around at other friends who are constantly getting hammered and monitored for what they do. I could see where they are heading and I see where they are now.
Secondary: Hang out with a bunch of lians. We were in the best class and three of my friends were very pretty. That’s why we were popular (thanks to them) and in my best friend’s opinion, kinda snobbish. They started smoking, I didn’t. They started shoplifting, ok I did too but I felt so bad I went back to return the stuff I stole. Then they started beating other girls up and I didn’t hang out with them anymore…I chose a class with none of them in it, made meaningful friendships which I can hopefully keep for the rest of my life. If I didn’t leave I don’t think I could get into a JC.
These are the decisions I made that gave me my standing this world today. Maybe I’m sheltered in a way cuz I’m provided with whatever I can have… but at the same time, I wasn’t bonded to some life plan my parents came up with and they trust me to make all the right decisions. I’ve gone so far but I’m not given any credit for it. Just sucks big time.
And again, I don’t live alone in my Disney fantasy. Do understand that they have villians too and I don’t believe in happily ever after. I just know that there is more to this world than money, evilness and rude people who don’t practice mrt ettiquete.
Amidst the hussle of school, work and relationships.. I think it is good to stop for a while to admire the clouds and be reminded that the world is still beautiful..or at least, a part of it.
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One question: How many peaple actually visits the zoo because they appreciate the animals but have no money to enjoy the luxury of seeing them in their wilderness?
Of the people I know, I believe only one have that purpose.
The rest visits because of one or more of the following reasons
- they are sick of orchard and sentosa
- they think it would be fun
- they think its a nice dating place
- they think their children would like it (ok I respect that)
- they want to see a favourite animal
- they find small furry mammals cute…these kind would usually squeal and pinch each other arms when they spotted one and make faces at reptiles. *rolls eye*
- they had to
I’m one of these people. *sighs*